For sessions of Energy Spirituality ENERGY HEALING, we have this motto: Energetic STUFF in auras can always, always, always be healed. Yet it’s also true that sometimes exceptions can prove the rule.

Fortunately, today’s Teaching Tale about BDSM does have a happy ending.

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Lovers of BDSM May Consider themselves Knowledgeable.

But I Wonder, Do They Know This?

According to spiritual sages, three human activities cause the worst mess in an aura. Sometimes that mess is so bad, it can’t be healed for the rest of your life. (And even afterward, one would have some awful Karma to pay off.) Consensual participation doesn’t prevent those bad consequences, either.

Extra-toxic varieties of stored energies in your aura would result from enjoyable experiences of:

• Black magic, e.g., voodoo
• Killing or torturing for pleasure
• Sex that involves violence, sadism, masochism, bondage, submission. For some of us, using this acronym is as close as we want to get to anything BDSM!

Consider Yourself Warned

Even TV shows that feature these topics can become addictive to some extent. To participate in real life is a big mistake: Ultimately educational but, really, something to avoid if ever you can. Because every person involved — every time — is likely to crave more-more-more.

And every time, different kinds of Energetic STUFF will be deposited in each person’s aura. Different Healing Centerpieces in STUFF in Energy Spirituality can help.  Although not always. Better not to play around with BDSM.

Ever Hear of Life’s 3 UN-Holy Ways to Feel Great?

Back when I studied with Maharishi Mahesh Yogi, I was told that there are 111 ways to transcend but only 108 of them are holy. Since working with clients in Energy Spirituality, I have come to wonder if these are the three dangerous ways to experience bliss.

Because sometimes a client of mine has grown a great deal, one session at a time. Then one of these three themes emerges, and that client simply cannot get past that desire. Suddenly a fast-evolving person who has gained brilliant results… decides not to pursue future sessions and drops out for keeps.

Sure, some clients have moved past this. But they are truly exceptional.

Which is why I conclude, from personal experience as the Founder of Energy Spirituality®: Avoid all three of this activities. They’re so deeply addictive. Never worth the whatever, the appeal.

Okay, now I’ll put theory aside and share specifics with you, Blog-Buddies. Because I can share with you a BDSM Success Story!

You See,

My Client Gladys Had a Secret Life

For years, Gladys had secretly been involved in special sexual “adventures.” These included bondage, infliction of pain, submission, etc. As my client, Gladys had good results from several sessions of Energy Spirituality®. Then she trusted me enough to ask for help from Energy Spirituality ENERGY HEALING.

I was honored to help facilitate the personal session I’m going to tell you about here. Afterward, I requested permission to share details from the cord of attachment that was removed, provided that I masked identifying details. Graciously Gladys consented.

This sweet housewife from Portland is happily married, with kids mostly grown. She works part-time. I doubt that anyone who knows her socially was aware of her secret life.

In our session, though, Gladys told me that she just couldn’t stop thinking about her lover. When facilitating the 12 Steps to Cut Cords of Attachment®, only then, did I learn what kind of love affair Gladys was having.

Hers is a cautionary tale. Please share it with any of your friends who are involved in BDSM. Exciting? To some.

But consensual or not, thrilling or not, there will always be a personal price to pay.

Useful Things to Know Before We Continue with

Gladys’ Story

Although sessions of Energy Spirituality® may be able to help, hello! It’s so much easier to simply say no. Or, if you have already said yes, end that kind of conversation. And that kind of relationship.

Important to know, the 12 Steps to Cut Cords of Attachment® is just one of many skill sets in Energy Spirituality®. As a client, you name the human problem early during your confidential session. Leave it to your Energy Spirituality Practitioner to select, then facilitate, that session’s official “Healing Centerpiece.”

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Icky Problems with Having a Cord of Attachment When Sex Turns

More “Interesting” Through Sado-Masochism

Wisdom Seekers, here’s a chance to learn about the kind of mess that can be involved.

As usual, when reporting cord dialog, all Cord Items are listed and numbered. With attribution to either my client or the cordee. Although every single Cord Item impacts the person who has that cord.

Incidentally, the Cordee likely has his or her own Cord of Attachment to my client, but that’s beyond the scope of our session. Besides, every Cord of Attachmen only affects the one who has it. Never creating problems for the Cordee.

What Makes Every Significant Cord of Attachment Worth Removing?

Even if Gladys never sees Joe again, even if Joe were to die, unless that Cord of Attachment was effectively removed …

Regarding each and every Cord Item that I’m about to report? Otherwise these would have cycled through Gladys’ aura and subconscious mind — many, many, many times every day.

That’s right, every day for the rest of her life. Now, with that Cord of Attachment gone for good, thank God, this will never happen again.

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Next, You Can Read all the Cord Items in

Gladys’ Former Cord of Attachment to her BDSM Lover Joe

Certain Cord Items have been bolded. I’ll explain why in the next section of this article.

In this particular set of Cord Items, most — though not all — of the cord items came from which side of the Dialog Box. From Gladys’ side.

1. In the midst of a sexual encounter including physical bondage and infliction of pain.
2. Gladys: I want him to stop.
3. Gladys: I feel hurt emotionally.
4. Gladys: Physically I feel scared.
5. Gladys: “But this is just my mind playing tricks on me.“
6. Gladys: Do I really feel this? Or is it only an illusion?
7. Gladys: “If I learn to handle this, I will develop great courage and spiritual wisdom.”
8. Gladys: “Then, nobody will be able to hurt my feelings.”
9. Joe: Does his part in this consensual infliction of pain upon her.
10. Joe: Enjoying this sexual encounter, building towards a climax.
11. Gladys: I’m going through so many interesting emotions and physical sensations.
12. Gladys: Process-oriented cord item — Going through layers of psychological exploration, like peeling back an onion.
13. Gladys: “This courageous exploration has got to be so good for me.“
14. Gladys: A sudden fear: This isn’t really good for me. At all.
15. Gladys: Doing this could become addictive.
16. Gladys: A big rush of sexual pleasure (related to the sexual act that has been progressing).
17. Gladys: Letting go and enjoying the big rush of pleasure.
18. Gladys: “This is wonderful.”

Logical Consequences Aplenty

Blog-Buddies, I’m not going into detail about all the logical consequences, nor the rest of my session with Gladys. Instead I’ll share a few of the major results that Gladys could expect after this session, the “Logical Consequences.”

Every one of the cord items in quotations here, also highlighted in bold, was a faulty cognition. This was a twisted form idea. Not true! Akin to what, in Alcoholics Anonymous, is called “stinking thinking“.

Life on Earth is already rife with enough illusions, don’t you think? Adding confused conceptslike the ones I’ve just listed, can take a person farther and farther away from objective reality. Better to have them gone for good.

On the positive side, perhaps you can appreciate how addictive this kind of sexual encounter is.

Any thoughts on this, Wisdom Seeker? Please share them.

Also, please share the article itself with anybody you think might beinterested.

Avoid Self-Healing to Remove Any

Cord of Attachment Involving Kinky Sex

This sort of Cord of Attachment is not suitable for self-healing.

Instead, I would recommend booking a sessions with an experienced Energy Spirituality Practitioner. Equally, one might to seek out a psychotherapist with expertise at helping clients recover from BDSM.

Either or both kinds of help is recommended.

In Conclusion, Is This Kind of Sexual Adventure

Really Just Cute or Trendy?

Plenty of people think so. Whether they find it diverting to read the big bestsellers about “50 Shades of Gray.” Maybe all they do is to buy extra lingerie. Or maybe they actively pursue sexual encounters of this kind.

However, there are consequences. It is not good, dirty, fun.

In my opinion, anyone encouraging this form of sexual expression has not done much aura reading to find out which horrible kinds of mess develops in the person’s energy field.

Does This Shock You, Too?

Toward the end of my session with Gladys, I asked her this question:

“About the kind of sex you have been having with Joe, did you think it was just a cute kind of fun, a way to add variety to your love life?”

“Sure,” she said.

Blog-Buddies, I’m here to remind you that how things are presented in human reality does not include the energetic consequences. Or the social, emotional, and behavioral consequences.

Reading the set of cord items here may serve as a warning to anyone, anyone who thinks that it is really a positive thing to seek adventure in this way.

To quote from The Guardian: “After many false starts, and leather-laden attempts to further the cause by Madonna, Rihanna and Lady Gaga, it seems that bondage and discipline, sadism and masochism (BDSM) has finally become mainstream. And while it’s great that people are having fun exploring their sexuality…” (Italics, mine.)

Fun? Really?

When I think about Gladys, for whom I have the highest hopes, these are the words that come to mind: Inwardly I can still hear her tone of voice saying, during our session:

“I can’t stop thinking about this guy.”

And I may never forget how her voice sounded, the quality of inner terror beneath the surface of her casual words.

Gladys’ Happy Ending

Gladys later reported to me that she has never-ever had another BDSM encounter. Not since that session of Energy Spirituality®. She does continue to have other sessions with me.